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v class="googleright">A life transition shrieks because a new notion of time. You not longerhave the elegance of waiting to remove the deck so you can focus onyour new goal. You've moved to fantasyland when you mention, "I'llstart arranging my transition next month, when I have more time."Next month you might have less time -- and a current crisis, too.1. Discover the "better than zero" rule.No time or motivation to write a thousand words or fire off tenphone calls? Any behavior is better than none. Skip a day becauseyou don't have ample time and you'll lose impetus.2. Do what you panic premier.You'll be bombarded up with energy for the rest of your day.3. Fifteen minutes a day can move you to your nightmare.Set a timer. If you go over the fifteen minutes, you don't get toskip a day.4. Prioritize actions that lead you to your goal.Easy to put off going to the gym or working on your businessplan. After all, your old life still goes on. During the crucialstages of a life conversion, you need to run on two trails atonce.5. Are you a butterfly or a flower? Schedule correspondingly!Butterflies like to move nigh. If you have six projects, spenda tiny time on each task each day.Flowers bloom when they have period to grow in one blot. Dedicatean all daytime alternatively p.m. to every project.6. Give yourself a treat each day. No exceptions!Find something truly palatable and decadent: ice cream with fudgesauce, your preference music album, quality time with the dog,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], walkat your favorite scene.7. Decide whether you need to be a dog or a cat.A cat is finicky: everything have to be equitable right. A dog cuts tothe chase, quick and sloppy. No point costing time as a cat whena dog will do.8. Sometimes extra is better.Believe it or not, researchers detect that people with multipleroles tend to be happier. Why? A huge win in an role canrepay for a bad day in another. And most people accomplishmore when they are compelled to ration their time.9. Set a deadline for process as well as outcome."I'll give myself two hours to write this diary" can be a greatmotivator. When I work by home, I accomplish more when I have aluncheon date than when the entire day spreads out before me.10. If you really don't want to do someone, query yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "Do Ireally have to?"One consumer kept forcing herself to work through a journal-writingprogram. I finally told her, "Most of the earth does quite wellwithout that procedure. If you hate it namely much, why not findsomething another to do?"If you truly have to, and you don't want to, get creative. Youcan hire help for part of the project, redesign the process,explosion your favorite music or agree yourself a spectacularreward.Most important: Know what motivates you. I don't get stimulated byrewards or status reports -- I go for the music and I love torent help. I have a friend who hates to neat house yet motivatesherself mainly awards herself with ice cream. No ruleshere!------------------------------------------------------------Cathy Goodwin, writer, vocation adviser, and spokesman,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],works with midlife, mid-career professionals wh
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