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Temat postu: The Curse Of Perfectionism
earchers are detecting that the need to be perfect is a ingredient in those anguish from depression, eating disorders, hoarding and additional obsessive compulsive behaviors. Perfectionism paralyzes and prevents meaningful living. It robs us of our self positiveness, our relationships with others and our private happiness. It tin even mar our health.
So why do we undergo from Perfectionism? Some appearance of it may be inherited or due apt a chemical imbalance in the head. But much of it namely nurture, not nature. As children, our society has ingrained in us the fancy namely we have to be perfect. We have to be peerless active, peerless smart, perfectly theoretical, perfectly put attach in every course. Magazines and television ads reinforce this belief. Our schools reinforce this also. How are we supposed apt feel when our child doesn't make the "gifted and gifted" group in the third grade? Failures, of course.
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, made it to our State Spelling Bee Championship. We were so arrogant. But when it came time to have a photo of the attendees because the Newspaper, the correspondent told my son and others to step alongside because he merely ambitioned to photograph the "victors". Never mind my son had "obtained" a place in the ultimates. Only winners counted. I witnessed the same thing on the soccer and baseball field when my kids were in high school. Everybody was hot shot. So much because team spirit.
So here we are with anorexia, teen suicide, depression, hoarding above the heave and not surprise. Now, for a Professional Organizer and Coach, I am helping my customers conquer what has been ingrained in them since infancy. Their notion that they must be perfect,nought else will do, is paralyzing them. My goal is to aid them to uncover and medal their distinctive abilities. They have gifts and artists diverse anybody else with abundance of power inside them to succeed.
Starting with the basics, this is what you need to understand. Everybody's got gremlins and they are huge fat liars. Here are some of the things that gremlins mutter in our ear.
Who do you consider you are? That will never work. You are too old to start something fashionable. What will folk say? It has to be perfect or don't disturb to do it. Don't bring it until its perfect Don't submit it until its perfect Don't promulgate it until it's perfect
Sound familiar? What's the pattern here? The pattern is that you have to be perfect to get anything done. You have to be perfectly intelligent, pretty, and juvenile and mobilized to accomplish anything. Lies all lies. The truth is that nobody is perfect. The truth is that nothing is ever perfect. The truth is that perfectionism is the biggest killer of good ideas, paralyzer of lives and businesses and the biggest gremlin of all. So what say we throw the Perfectionism Gremlin out?
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Gosh, what a cute heading for a children's paperback! This story, whatsoever, doesn't have a elated ending - not rides off into the sunset on a pearly nag or is salvaged along a prince. Instead, this is the article of how Perfectionism ruins lives.
Stage 1: Perfectionism. It has to be perfect. I'm I'm not perfect, I am a failure. What will people think of me? I'll be so humiliated. If I don't get it entire done perfectly and all in a little while, it will never occur. Then the call rings, hardly everme abrupt accident happens and that day you intended to "obtain it all done - and perfectly" is worked. You have failed. Better try again some other time.
Stage 2: Procrastination. So, the project gets delayed- put on the behind burner until the perfect opportunity arrives. Other issues or projects take over in the meantime. Forgotten and postponed,
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, your major project festers and stews until it becomes pressing. Now it is one emergency. Welcome to Stage 3
Stage 3: Prioritization. You have left it too long. The distress is, you've left a lot of things too long - procrastination becomes a wrong accustomed - and you don't know where to start or what to tackle premier.
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