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Temat postu: Know How You Want To Be Treated
you clear about how you want people to treat you? Have you capable your boundaries being crossed or violated? One course women typically have a laborious time with is establishing boundaries. As mini girls, most of us are not taught how to say, "This is what I want"" If we're particular about everything, say from the screen of our lipstick to how we want our CDs mobilized, we're denounced for being picky, selfish or spoiled.
Think, for example, how Meg Ryan's symbol in the film When Harry Met Sally was treated while she asked as her salad or her pie a la mode just so. If people adore you, that sort of action is endearing or cute, so long as it doesn't entangle anybody or reason them grief or inconvenience. Everyone else finds it actually annoying.
The only period teenage American girls are overtly encouraged apt lay down the decree is ashore dates with teenage boys. Heaven taboo if we comesintoseffect too much apartment alternatively disturb somebody. We're taught apt all over, serve everyone ahead ourselves, and to be circumspect of additional people's emotions. Furthermore, we're taught to treat others the path we absence to be treated and they'll notice and return the favor. No disarray. No fuss. No hazard. Right? In a faultless world, namely may be true. But who lives in a perfect world?
As a matron steps entirely into her private bodaciousness, she's going to start taking up extra space. Boundaries are going to start distending and she's going to have to protect those boundaries and establish new rules of standards for how she's going to be treated.
Yet, some of us don't have the language or skills to mallet up for ourselves. As teenagers, we may have been skillful to mention no in the back of a motorcar,
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If this were the 1970s, I assume this would have been counsel on assertiveness. If you look up the word in the glossary, its elucidation includes aggressiveness. But most American girls know there's a huge feud. To be assertive is somehow okay, but paradise forbid we ought across the line into aggressiveness. That would be grim because it would make other people feel wrong (just about we assumed). Because of the women's movement, we acquired duty for getting what we wanted, but we also had to do it in such a way that no an would thing to our behavior. We had to do it along to a quite accurate code that no an really knew the opener to.
If we acted in a manner fewer than lady-like, we still risked being apparent as manipulative,
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, conniving or the other b-word. Not many women have actually been called those things out noisy, yet we always fret approximately it. We are so afraid to risk a negate response that we prefer not to take any action at all. And that's where we lose our bodacious power!
Get control over what you can control. Fundamental to establishing your Bodacious Career is to understand how you want to be treated and to believe that you're worth being treated that way. As you act on this faith, it's unbelievable how many esteem you garner from others because of how much respect you have for yourself.
BODACIOUS CAREER BUILDER #5: Be remove about your emotional, psychological, and physical boundaries. Write them down.
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