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According to Certified Imago Therapist, Thakena Hogue, "People give up too soon.The couple has to work through it. They have to be very intentional about understanding each other." Imago therapy is designed to help couples reach a "sustainable connection" and "unconditional love for each other." In a 2009 interview published on the Psychology Today website, Hendrix said "Healing and wholeness which effective therapy facilitates is in the service of love."
Imago Theory and Elvis
Imago is Latin for image, and according to Hendrix, it's the "image of the person who can make me whole again," that partner who can help us grow up. And to accomplish this passage, we're instinctively attracted to people who remind us of our childhood caregivers. And for Lisa Marie it was Michael Jackson who was that someone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], well, like Elvis.
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Lisa Marie Presley - Michael Jackson a lot like Elvis
Michael Jackson's Final Resting Place
Michael Jackson and Elvis Presley
Lisa Marie couldn't help herself when it came to falling for Michael Jackson. She was "intoxicated" with him and only her father,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Elvis Presley, ever had that effect on her, she said during her interview on the Oprah Winfrey Show, Thursday, October 21, 2010. And she admitted she didn't understand her feelings or some of the conflicts she had with her former husband. That's because the couple was having an Imago match power struggle, even though, believe it or not, the two lovers were made for each other, according to Imago theory. The theory was first introduced in the New York Times bestseller, Getting the Love You Want: A Couples Guide, written by psychologist Harville Hendrix. Hendrix has appeared on Oprah seventeen times.
Imago Therapy
"Our unconscious need is to have our feelings of aliveness and wholeness restored by someone who reminds us of our caretakers," according to Hendrix. When we fall in love and "the world seems altogether a better place,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]," we believe we've found someone who will meet our needs. There's only one problem. Those partners have the same flaws and deficiencies as the caregivers that originally hurt us. "Unfortunately, since we don't understand what's going on, we're shocked when the awful truth of our beloved surfaces, and our first impulse is to run screaming in the opposite direction,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]," Hendrix said.
The time is long past now since the marriage of Michael Jackson and Lisa Marie Presley. And, it's tempting to think that because of their famous lives they were different from ordinary couples striving to heal from past traumas and build fulfilling marriages. Thanks to Lisa's frank and candid remarks about her marriage to Michael Jackson, we can understand like she does now, it's all about love.
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