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r favorite politician,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the local syndic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for whom you campaigned and voted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is in difficulty. You spent your own time and money persuasion kin, friends, and neighbors to vote for this applicant. You thought he was a family male, a male of amounts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], someone who could be trusted. Now, after 2 years in office, he's been caught red-handed having an affair with an office staff member, who is merely older than his daughter. The newspaper creates dissonance inside you. To soften the dissonance, you might react in any one or combination of the emulating ways:
*Denial--To shut out the dissonance, you renounce there is a problem. You do this either along ignoring or demeaning the source of the information. You might also deliberately misperceive the confronting position.
"This is just the media going after him. He is doing a great job, so the antagonistic party is trying to tarnish his good label. This will all blow over when the facts bring an end to .... It's all just a big misinterpreting."
*Modify--You change your existing cognitions to effect consistency. Most of the time this involves acknowledging you were erroneous and making changes to treat your errors.
"I can't believe I voted for this fellow. I feel swindled and taken advantage of. I really mistook him for a man of character. I need to beg to my family and friends. I cannot support a man who does not prestige his marrying engagements."
*Reframe--You change your understanding or interpretation of the meaning. This leads you to either adjust your own musing or depreciate the importance of the entire matter, considering it unimportant wholly.
"The media said affair. Well, I'm sure he didn't really sleep with her. Maybe they're fair nice friends. I'm sure his wife knew always about the whole thing. Even if they did have an affair, who doesn't? Is it that big of handle?"
*Search--You are determined to find a flaw in the other side's position, to discredit the source,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and to seek social or evidentiary advocate for your own attitude. You might try to convince the source (if accessible) of his misdeed. You might likewise try to convince others you did the right thing.
"I've listened almost the reporter crashing this fable. He's beat things out of proportion before. All the friends I've talked to don't think the story is true. In truth, this reporter has been against the mayor from the time he became a candidate. I'm working to call that reporter right immediately."
*Separation--You separate the viewpoints that are in conflict. This compartmentalizes your cognitions, making it easier for you apt bypass alternatively even forget the discrepancy. In your idea, what happens in 1 zone of your life (or someone else's) should not influence the additional areas of your life.
"I balloted because him and he namely doing a magnificent job. Inflation is cheap, unemployment is not a problem, and offense has been depressed. He is doing everything he said he would. It does not material what he does in his personal life. What matters is how he is doing his job. There is no bearing among an affair and his job extravaganza."
*Rationalization--You find pretexts for why the inconsistency is attractive. You change your expectations or try to different what actually occurred. You also find causes to defend your behavior or your attitudes.
"Well, his wife is cold to him and she's never approximately when he needs her. She's never really supported him since he took office. After all, she still has her own commerce. Maybe this is just a matrimony of expedience and this relationship is part of their approval."