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My son is enjoying the sweet expectations of the summer to come. Dreams of vacation, summer camp, trips to the zoo, and time to play outdoors consume his thoughts. Much as I know he’s enjoyed the past school year, not once have I heard him say that he’ll miss the classes and the structure that has been imposed on him for the past nine months. Rather, the opportunity to relax comes as a welcome change in his life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], one he is ready to embrace with both arms.
Actor Donald Curtis defines “relaxation” as “releasing all concern and tension and letting the natural order of life flow through one’s being.” We only need to watch our kids at play to realize that they have already discovered this wonderful secret to rejuvenating the spirit. How can we more jaded adults find the same joy in abandonment? Here are a few ideas:
As summer quickly approaches,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we parents are busy scurrying about trying to fit in all of the last minute band concerts and sporting events; awards programs and graduations. The thought of a little free time sounds pretty appealing right about now, but is it also just a little scary?
1. Live In the Moment. Ignore the dishes and laundry. Go outside and lie under a tree, or watch a ladybug crawl across the concrete. Really talk to your children, and listen to what they have to say
And yet, I, a “modern mom,” have a heck of a time accepting this universal truth for myself. In fact I have found that, subconsciously or not, I more readily follow Helen Hayes philosophy: “If you rest, you rust!”
After all, adults aren’t issued a report card at the end of May and given a “Get out of Work Free” pass for the rest of the summer. We are judged day in and day out on our continuing performance, and it is easy to forget the benefits of taking a little rest and relaxation when we can.
But the benefits are clear. The R&R we take today builds up over time, creating the excess energy we need to overcome the challenges we will face in life. It’s what helps us deal with the major issues we encounter. What better time to make room for this important activity (or rather,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], lack of activity) than this summer when you can enjoy it with your kids?
The benefits of rest and relaxation have been touted throughout the ages. A Spanish proverb says “How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then to rest afterward.” And Ovid,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a philosopher born in 43 BC is quoted as saying “Take rest; a field that has rested gives us a bountiful crop.”
Something tells me I’m not alone.
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